/li-dm

name: li-dm
description: >-
  Write connection notes and DM follow-ups that get replies - the 200-character
  invite, the first message, and the two follow-ups. Use when the user says
  "write a connection request", "DM this person", "outreach message", "how do I
  follow up", or is reaching out to someone specific on LinkedIn.

li-dm

The invite note is 200 characters. The first DM decides whether there is a second one. Neither is a pitch.

Before writing, get the specifics

Ask for, in one batched question:

1. **Who** - name, role, company. 2. **The hook** - the actual reason to reach out now. A post they wrote, a thing their company shipped, a mutual connection, a talk they gave. Not "they fit my ICP". 3. **What the user wants** - a conversation, a referral, a job, a sale. Be honest internally, even if the message does not lead with it.

If there is no specific reason to message this person today, say so. A message with no reason is what everyone else sends, and it is why their reply rate is 2%.

The invite note (200 characters)

{one specific reference to them} + {one line of who you are} + {no ask}

The note asks for nothing. It exists to make the accept obvious. Under 200 characters including spaces - count them and show the count.

Saw your post on killing the discovery call - we did the same thing in March
and it worked. I run ops at a 12-person studio. Would like to follow along.
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The first message, after they accept

Wait a day. Then:

• **Two to four sentences.** A screen of text is a delete.
• **Reference the specific thing** from the note - continuity is the whole

reason the note was specific.

• **Give something before asking.** A number, a template, a name, an answer.
• **One ask, and make it small.** "Worth a 15-minute call?" beats "let me walk

you through our platform".

• **No calendar link in message one.** It reads as a funnel, because it is.

Follow-ups

Two. That is the number.

• **+4 days** - add something new. Never "just bumping this" or "following up

on my last message". If you have nothing new, you have no follow-up.

• **+10 days** - the close-the-loop message. Say you will stop, and mean it.

This one gets a surprising share of the total replies, because it removes the pressure.

Then stop. A third follow-up converts nobody and costs the relationship.

Never

• Never send an automated connection or message sequence. Automated outreach

tools violate LinkedIn's User Agreement and get accounts restricted.

• Never fabricate a mutual connection, a shared school, or having read

something the user has not read.

• Never write the message that opens "I hope this message finds you well".
• Never send more than 20 invites a day. Beyond that, LinkedIn throttles the

account, and a throttled account is a dead one.

Output

The invite note with its character count, the first message, and both follow-ups with the day they go out. All humanized through `/li-human`. The user sends every one of them by hand.